You know we all want something. We want to be happier in our marriage, we want to wear a smaller size, we want to be more financially free. We all have some area in our life that we want to be different. Many of us it seems that it, is an ongoing battle. Whatever that thing is that we want somehow always feels unattainable. But the truth is nothing is really unattainable. We all make decisions each day that are moving us toward freedom or toward bondage. What if you asked yourself new questions or set new boundaries. It is not that I can’t eat this piece of pie it is that this piece of pie will not allow me to be the size that I want. Do I want to give up the desired size more than the piece of pie. It is not that I can’t have the trinket of the day. The question is does this trinket move me closer to my goal of financial freedom? Do I want it more than I want to walk in financial peace? You get the idea. Walking in freedom is a series of decisions. We all want it to be one big cloud of thunder, thunked on the head event. But recovery is a journey not an event. Change is one decision at a time it is not a one and done event.
What if you step back and ask yourself a new set of questions, what if you step back and make a new set of choices. Instead of living a life that is impossible to gut out, invite your life to be lived by choices toward your goal. Happy trudging…..
